| Sunday, August 24, 2008 |
| Dependently independent |
I think the chemistry between the guy and whatnot is first envisioning whether the relationship, let alone the date, is going to work. If it isn't, then I'd suggest waiting for the one you are positive about and someone whom you can envision being yourself around. just donte be completely blided by other experiences that you've had with previous relationship. If for whatever reason you can't be yourself or can't make it fun, then it's probably not meant to go any further and whats the point then? but donte just accept any tom dick harry because they are there persuing. Really envision the possibility of being arund this person. After that, things should go smoothly between the both. The rest just might come naturally.
i donte know. but mayb the above only applies to the independent ones. because to me, being independent means that you do not have to rely others to get what you want. for example you dont necessarily need a boyfriend in your life. You dont need someone to comfort you, even if it'd be nice. independent is all about staying true to one's self. it means that you don't have to follow the crowd or care what others think or say about you. you have your own path, and you stick to it. sure others may join you, but you can stand tall and proud on your own and you know how to take care of yourself physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. it doesn't mean that you can't ask or need help, because no one can have all the answers and ability to be perfect. its just that you prefer not to have help. i'm weird, and i'm dependently independent. i like to do things my way, i try to take care of myself on my own, i hate asking for help, and i'm pretty stubborn, but at the end of the day i really need my homies(esp jy and stephy) and of cos god, who im very dependent on. lastly being independent is being able to be on your own and happy. I guess:]
on the other hand, the "clubbing thrice a week" lifestyle is taking toll on my health=( and on the lighter note im starting my job training real soon. both good and bad.
p.s hahaha im still lazy to upload to photos to my computer. patience is a virture ok? hahaa=) |
posted by Jessamine @ 5:25 PM  |
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